The male to female ratio on Zoosk in New York City is 55/45. New York City women on Zoosk have an average of 13 deep conversations (that go past a simple exchange) a day. New York City women. As mentioned earlier, Zoosk has a membership of 40 million singles from all over the world. Data from the site shows that most of the members on the site are aged between 25 and 34. Moreover, there are more men than women on the site – 45% are women while 55% are men.

Every woman is different and every woman wants different things from a relationship. Some may want a family, others grand adventure, some may like a sharp-dressed men, while others like there boys a little grungy. Yes, there are a lot of differences when it comes to what women want, but after looking into online dating data from the dating site Zoosk, we see that there are some universal things all women are looking for.

Using Zoosk data, dating expert and owner of The Wing Girl Method, Marni has come up with five things every woman wants from a man and tips on how you can take advantage of them.

Video Transcript:
Hey daters! My name is Marni, owner of The Wing Girl Method. And from here on out, I’m going to be your very own personal wing girl. That means it’s my job to explain women to you and break down all the frustrating, confusing, and mind-boggling things that we do. And, I’m also going to tell you what to do to get the women you want using my insider resources.

The team at Zoosk has been sending me a lot of data. One of the surveys that I received was one done on over 3,000 women in the U.S. asking them the top 5 non-physical qualities women look for in a man. I wanted to give you the results of that survey and explain what the results actually mean.

#1: A funny guy with a sense of humor.
Now from this, you may think that every woman is hoping to meet Carrot Top, or Bill Burr, or Louie CK, someone who’s over-the-top funny all the time and can constantly entertain her. This is not what most women are seeking. When a woman says she wants a guy with a sense of humor, she means that she wants someone who can laugh at himself and life, and doesn’t take things too seriously.

Everyone, including you, has the ability to have a sense of humor. You just have to learn how to let it out so others can see it. If you don’t think that you can do that or that you don’t have a sense of humor, you can discover your sense of humor by doing things like taking improvisation classes, watching comedy shows, and using what you see to develop your own style of unique observations.

#2: Someone kind and caring.
This doesn’t mean that you have to be saving lost puppy dogs on a weekly basis, volunteering at homeless shelters, and/or crying at all romantic comedies. Kind and caring for women means you have the ability to be thoughtful and think outside of yourself. That means, asking her about her day, or listening to what she says and then commenting on it. That means, remembering things she mentions to you, and bringing them up later in conversation. Simple little things that sadly most men do not do very well.

#3: A man who’s honest.
This one should be pretty self-explanatory because there is nothing worse than a man who lies. Women want to feel safe with a man and lies do not facilitate any form of safety. Now, being honest doesn’t mean walking into a room and telling a woman that she looks fat in a dress. When dealing with women, I always advise to be honest with tact. Meaning, to be sensitive to her feelings while still not holding back on a truth.

For example, if you’ve just started dating a woman and she says, “So are you seeing anyone else?” And you say, “Yup, slept with one of the girls last night—it was awesome, going to see her again on Tuesday.” I mean that’s honest, but horrible. Instead, you can be honest with tact and say, “I’m dating, but I’m really enjoying getting to know you and I want to see where this goes.” Boom! Honest with tact, plus it gives that girl a little push letting her know there are others out there, but right now she is ahead of the pack, but could fall behind soon.

#4: A man who’s fun.
Women want a man with a full life that they can be a part of. That means a man that has hobbies, things he enjoys and likes to do, a friendship circle, passions, opinions… basically a personality.

A man who is all about work, stressed out, doesn’t have a positive outlook on life, lazy… is no good for us women. And it’s no good for that man either. We like a little fire and excitement, or else things become dull and we move on to greener pastures.

#5: A loving guy.
And the final non-physical quality that women want in a man is for him to be loving. When I think of what I want when I say a man that is loving, what I’m really saying is that I want a man who loves even when I suck. Now I know this is a hard thing to request of any man, but bear with me for a second… We women have a lot of feelings and emotions. Some are rational, a lot are not. But sadly, a lot of things we feel and emote are not always under our control. These moments are the key moments of when this request for a loving man is crucial.

And those are the top five non-physical qualities women want a man. Now you may be thinking I’m not that man or I can’t do what Marni just said. But the great thing is, is that all of these qualities are totally learnable. And I am going to make more videos to explain some of these topics in more detail.

But for now, if you want more direction, advice, and guidance on how to get these qualities and learn to be the man women want, go to www.winggirlmethod.com, and sign up for my free newsletters jam-packed with actionable advice you can start using right now. If there are questions you have about women, make sure to leave a comment below. I always check the comments to get ideas for my videos. And make sure to use me, so you can get all the insider information you need to be super successful with women.

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Zoosk.com has long been known as the top free online dating site. Before you get all excited about not having to pay to online date, you need to read this review. The reason we didn’t have any success on Zoosk.com is directly related to this being a free dating site. As they say, you get what you pay for. Or, in this case, you get what you don’t pay for.

What you don’t pay for on this Zoosk.com is a garbage dating site. We didn’t rank it in our Top 5 because it didn’t deserve to be. Not only did we fail to meet women on Zoosk.com, the site was annoying. Too high of a male to female ratio and the advertisements were just plain irritating.

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Zoosk.com: Review Of Our Results On Zoosk.com

By now, you can probably guess we didn’t meet anyone on Zoosk.com. That much is obvious. We gave it a shot despite hating the site. When we started reviewing these dating sites, we promised ourselves we would give each site a full 12-week review and that we would send out 5 emails per day on each site. When we sent each email on Zoosk.com, we knew it was unlikely to receive a response to. Of the 450 emails sent, only 40 were ever responded to. YIKES! That’s less than 1 out of 11 for all of you Math majors. Perhaps something good did come of our Zoosk.com membership. If it means we prevented you from wasting your time on this site, at least we did our job.

Zoosk.com Pitfalls: What We Hated About Zoosk.com

Not having to pay for this site was what we hated most. It’s not that we like spending money. But we know you can’t truly find someone decent without paying a few bucks to meet them. Online dating is something you should invest a little money in. The free dating sites are enticing because they’re free, but all you really do is waste your time.

Zoosk.com caters way too much towards the 18-21 crowd. For those above age 21, you’ll find the site very immature. The quality of women is low. Trashy women that are just looking to get laid…if they’re looking for anything at all. That’s our other problem with Zoosk.com. Since the site is free, you’ll come across women that sign-up with no real intention to meet someone. Sometimes they just want to see what’s out there and nothing more. This is very common with free dating sites and it’s the main reason it’s hard to find someone on a site such as Zoosk.com.

Zoosk.com Review: Conclusion

If you have plenty of time to kill, sure, go ahead and waste it away on Zoosk.com. Of course, you could be doing something far more productive such as signing up for Match.com. On Match.com, you will have to pay to meet someone. But that’s a good thing, for the reasons stated above. You might be asking yourself why we’re so harsh towards Zoosk.com. After all, millions of people sign-up for it, so they must like it. Actually, that’s not entirely true. Many do sign-up but only a small portion stick around long enough to meet someone.

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